The Importance of Self-Care Buddies
I am a strong advocate of the self-care planning process, which is outlined in the Standards of Self-Care developed by international experts in the topics of traumatic stress and compassion fatigue (Green Cross Academy of Traumatology). Self-Care strategies include regularly monitoring progress; and meeting regularly with your self-care buddy to discuss successes, challenges, and ways to overcome challenges. As a self-care buddy, you may learn about strategies which will help your buddy move past a challenge. A multi-pronged approach to good self-care might include information such as that provided in the section below: The Importance of Counterbalancing Stress.
Buddy Check - How are You Doing?
It's almost the end of January, the first day of the month in which some of you started your New Year's Resolutions. In my first blog of the year I offered a link to to Four Things to Strive for in 2012 (do you remember them?); and offered a fifth: Be gentle with yourself!
In keeping with the concept of self-care buddies, I'm checking in with you. Are you satisfied with your progress? What are your successes and challenges? Your feedback will inspire future blogs. I'm serious! Write to me at krf@figleyinstitute.com with your stories.
The Importance of Counterbalancing Stress
Those of you who have followed my work know that I frequently quote Dr. John Wilson from the video "When Helping Hurts: Sustaining Trauma Workers". Dr. Wilson states: "It's important to counterbalance the intensity of the work you do." At the Gift from Within website you will find this video and others, along with brief (FREE) video excerpts, such as "What is Compassion Fatigue?" If you are interested in reading more, Gift from Within has posted a dozen FREE articles about Compassion Fatigue by leading experts in the field.
This morning I finished writing "Counterbalancing Stress", the first of my promised six entries for the Encyclopedia of Trauma, due to be published in September. In this entry I highlight four strategies for inducing the relaxation response: breath work, meditation, progressive relaxation and visualization/guided imagery. Regardless of whether stress is primary or secondary, these strategies are effective when practiced regularly. You can read more about them in one of my favorite resources: The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook. One or more of these strategies may fit nicely into your self-care plan or that of your buddy.
A Note of Gratitude
Expressing gratitude is an element of good self-care. Many of you signed up for Figley Institute's Compassion Fatigue Educator course. I'm delighted about this for two reasons: 1) most important, you understand that compassion stress is a real phenomena and are taking steps to address it at a personal level; and 2) some of you are instituting organizational change which translates to healthier work environments for those who work with people who are suffering. To you I express my deepest gratitude.
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